What is Narcissistic Abuse?

Narcissistic abuse refers to a consistent pattern of emotional, psychological, or sometimes physical harm inflicted by a person who displays strong narcissistic traits — such as a deep need for control, admiration, or dominance — and a lack of empathy for others.

It often involves manipulative behaviours like gaslighting, blame-shifting, demeaning comments, emotional withdrawal, or alternating affection and criticism to confuse or control the victim.

Unlike occasional conflict in healthy relationships, narcissistic abuse is chronic and strategic — aimed at undermining the other person’s confidence, independence, and sense of reality. Over time, this dynamic can lead to anxiety, depression, confusion, and loss of self-worth in the survivor.

Did you know?

General (global/clinical) prevalence of NPD: estimates in community samples vary — commonly cited ranges are around 0.5% to 6% of the general population, depending on the study and measurement method. Clinical settings often report higher percentages.

What We Do

Support

Confidential guidance to help you make sense of what’s happening.

Practical next steps: safety planning, boundaries, and documentation.

Signposting to specialist services and local support.

Educate

Clear explanations of narcissistic abuse tactics (gaslighting, coercive control, trauma bonding).

Resources for friends/family and professionals supporting survivors.

Short guides you can read in minutes.

Fundraising

Donations fund free resources, events, and support services.

Monthly giving options and transparent impact updates.

Fundraising packs for individuals and workplaces.

Events

Workshops, peer support meetups, and expert Q&As.

Online and in-person options.

Safe, moderated spaces with clear community rules.

Our App

The NAF mobile app offers a safe, discreet space for those experiencing or recovering from narcissistic abuse. Designed with privacy and support in mind, it brings together practical tools, trusted information, and a compassionate community — all in one place.

Inside the app, you can:

  • Safely log incidents and store important evidence
  • Connect with others through supportive, anonymous forums
  • Access expert resources and book events with ease

From protection to connection, the app empowers you to take control at your own pace, wherever you are.

Our App

The NAF mobile app offers a safe, discreet space for those experiencing or recovering from narcissistic abuse. Designed with privacy and support in mind, it brings together practical tools, trusted information, and a compassionate community — all in one place.

Inside the app, you can:

Safely log incidents and store important evidence

Connect with others through supportive, anonymous forums

Access expert resources and book events with ease

From protection to connection, the app empowers you to take control at your own pace, wherever you are.

Upcoming Events

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Get Involved

You don’t need to be an expert to make a difference. There are several ways to support survivors and help us expand access to education, resources, and safe spaces. All involvement is survivor-informed and safeguarding-led.

Volunteer

Help behind the scenes or on the frontline.

  • Community moderation and peer support
  • Admin, research, or content help
  • Event support (online or in person)

Fundraise

Turn awareness into action.

  • Run your own fundraiser or workplace event
  • Take part in foundation-led campaigns
  • Access simple fundraising packs and guidance

Donate

Direct impact, immediate support.
  • Fund free resources and survivor support
  • Support events and outreach
  • One-off or monthly options

Partner With Us

Work with us professionally or organisationally.
  • Therapists, counsellors, and legal professionals
  • Charities, community groups, and employers
  • Education and awareness partnerships