What is Narcissistic Abuse?

Narcissistic abuse refers to a consistent pattern of emotional, psychological, or sometimes physical harm inflicted by a person who displays strong narcissistic traits — such as a deep need for control, admiration, or dominance — and a lack of empathy for others.

It often involves manipulative behaviours like gaslighting, blame-shifting, demeaning comments, emotional withdrawal, or alternating affection and criticism to confuse or control the victim.

Unlike occasional conflict in healthy relationships, narcissistic abuse is chronic and strategic — aimed at undermining the other person’s confidence, independence, and sense of reality. Over time, this dynamic can lead to anxiety, depression, confusion, and loss of self-worth in the survivor.

Did you know?

General (global/clinical) prevalence of NPD: estimates in community samples vary — commonly cited ranges are around 0.5% to 6% of the general population, depending on the study and measurement method. Clinical settings often report higher percentages.

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